
From 1.29 to 2.1 is just a matter of swapping and removing numbers. Yet 2.1 seems a Herculean task to reach. However Herculean this task might be, the government is desperately trying to boost the total fertility rate, using money to lure Cupid and the storks to
At the recent National Day Rally, a series of implementations were aimed at easing the financial burden of Singaporean couples amidst global inflation, by increasing the baby bonus, tax benefits for children and infant-care subsidies. Besides money, mothers have better legal protection, and will receive maternity benefits if fired in the last 6 months of pregnancy without sufficient cause or retrenched within the last 3 months. The government has also considered older mothers, by helping to ease the cost of fertility treatment. This all bodes well for the financially conscious Singaporean planning to give birth here. But has money been trivialized in the process of childbearing?
One oft quoted reason for Singaporean women giving birth late is the opportunity to advance in their careers. As women become more educated, they too want to have a successful career, which inevitably takes time to build. By the time they start to settle down, many have missed the fertility boat.
Furthermore, having a child means a loss of money on two fronts. Mothers lose some opportunity to advance their careers, missing out on potential income; and have to pay for the baby expenses. While the increased financial perks seem to lighten the load on mothers, the one-off incentive lacks foresight. Compared to the expenses that will chalk up in the next fifteen to twenty years, a measly $4,000 for one child and $6,000 for the second child seems a measly sum.
Perhaps, it is the oversight of the government that mindsets of Singaporeans have been ignored. Women have become more career-oriented, and childbirth is secondary compared to career advancement. Men generally still want to have children, but the prospect of finding a suitable partner in
Instead of forcing cash down their throats, mothers should be informed that fertility drops drastically after 35 and the risk of birth defects increases sharply. This will allow them to plan their lives with 35 in mind, to create a framework to have children before then. On the other side, men should lower their expectations of Ms. Right and ditch the notion of the submissive Asian woman. The Social Development Unit should step in to educate men about their social graces and tips about dating, to increase their chances of finding a partner, and subsequently, childbirth.
While the government can spend more money on baby bonuses, the onus is ultimately on individuals to change their mindset, to make sacrifices and take the first step into parenthood. As quoted from a tongue-in-cheek poster aimed at encouraging couples to have children, “Children make grown-ups grow up.”
Indeed, there might be some truth in that statement.
